DEAR DEIDRE: SOMETHING about my brother’s girlfriend makes me feel uneasy about her.
From the moment we met a year ago, I’ve had a gut feeling that she’s not a good person and she can’t be trusted.
I’m 29 and my brother is 27. His girlfriend is 24.
Although I’m not one to gossip, I hear she’s got a bit of a reputation where we live.
And she’s always putting on big PDAs with my brother – kissing and cuddling in front of everyone – which I think looks so cheap.
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I don’t know if I should say something to my brother about my concerns.
He’ll probably think I’m just jealous – I’m his older brother but I have been single for three years.
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DEIDRE SAYS: While a gut feeling can sometimes be useful, nothing you’ve written suggests you have any rational reason to dislike this woman.
The truth is, you do sound jealous.
Your brother won’t thank you if you tell him about your reservations, so instead make an effort with her.
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And if your instincts are correct, then you can show you care about your brother by supporting him. Everyone has a past.
If your brother is happy with her, you should try to be happy for him too.
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