I am nervous to go on date with online girl that went cold on me years ago

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM feeling a bit nervous after agreeing to go on a date.

It is my first one for a while and I don’t want to mess it up or embarrass myself.

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A girl I met on a dating site three years ago got back in touch again, completely out of the blue, a couple of months back.

I really liked her when we were originally messaging each other but she suddenly went cold on me.

I never understood why.

I am 29 and she is 27.

We still seem to get on well and the messages have been flowing regularly.

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We have spoken on the phone a few times and talked about going on a first date.

I just want to be myself but I lack confidence.

DEIDRE SAYS: First dates can be nerve-wracking but it is important to be yourself.

That is enough.

Don’t forget that she is likely to be just as nervous as you are.

This date is for both of you to find out if there is something more to explore when all the nervousness disappears. Good luck.

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