It’s Friday and you know what that means: your weekly fix of someone else’s sex and love life.
We are of course talking about How I Do It, our diary series that each reveals what a different person gets up to in the bedroom for seven whole days.
More so than just being about sex, this series explores what makes people tick, what affects their sex drive, relationships, and all the other things that make up the most intimate parts of our lives.
This week, we’d like to introduce you to Charlotte, a 26-year-old lesbian woman who has just started a new romance.
On the outside, theirs looks like your everyday relationship – but Charlotte, a personal trainer, has an unusual sexual side gig, where she tortures men for money.
She is also a submissive and has a female dominatrix who checks in weekly.
Let’s find out more, shall we?
Today I got a message from the guy I ball-bust for money, arranging our next meetups now that lockdown is easing. He said he would like to go ’til he passes out with no safe word this time.
I don’t have any set prices – payments are known as gifts, so they’ll suggest something and I’ll then decide if it’s worth it or not. This particular session was £500 for 45 minutes.
Because I’m a personal trainer, I get weird requests all the time of men asking for wrestling sessions, but in reality they just want me to dominate them.
During the sessions, I get into a sadistic sexual goddess frame of mind but I don’t get turned on by it. It’s more like an ego-trip.
In the evening, I hung out with my girlfriend, Irina*, and although I wanted to have sex, I was super tired so she gave me a full body massage including hands and head.
Today was a very sexy day.
I got a stitch so I lied on top of my bed on my front and Irina sat on the bed and started playing with me through my denim skirt, and we had surprise sex from behind.
I was in pain, and had no idea that I was wet, but suddenly we went from zero to 100 in no less than a minute.
I went down on her afterwards with her dress and shoes still on.
We’ve known each other for two weeks, so like typical lesbians we are spending every night together. Later that evening in bed I teased her, but I was too tired to finish, so we just went to sleep.
Awoke very horny and took 10 minutes out of my allotted ‘getting ready to go to work’ time to quickly f*** my girlfriend.
We’re definitely having sex a lot, but it’s that freshness of a relationship where you’re trying to please and prove to each other that it’s the best sex you’ve ever had.
Went to a BBQ, it was very humid and kept raining.
With a mixture of the weather and the flowing of drinks, I found myself getting very sexually excited and teasing my girlfriend when others weren’t around.
She shooed me off every time, frightened that someone would see, but that only made me want to do it more.
I don’t have a high sex drive, but if I’m attracted to someone and they know how to push my buttons I could just have it endlessly.
If I’m not dating someone I’ll probably just masturbate two or three times per week.
I met with a friend and we spoke about sex a lot throughout the night, we got very drunk and she ended up staying over.
In the middle of the night she spooned me, and as I was drunk and half asleep, I thought she was my girlfriend, so I nestled my hips into hers.
I don’t know if I was dreaming, but I felt her fingers stroking my chest.
Then I suddenly remembered that it was my best friend and had to turn round and double-check.
I moved away and went back to sleep frightened and mentally disturbed. Nothing was mentioned the next morning.
I didn’t feel guilty but I felt kind of silly and stupid. I’m worried, because what if my friend actually fancies me?
My girlfriend and I had a weird chat today.
I am a sub to a dominatrix, who is married, and initially Irina was fine with it but it’s starting to become a bit of an issue now. I respect her and we’ve decided that I won’t meet up with my dom anymore, but I’m not sure how I feel about it.
It’s making me wonder if maybe I’m actually polyamorous.
Later, we went to Irina’s best friend’s ‘cake smashing’ birthday party and both got quite drunk.
I tried to have sex with her in the toilets but had to stop midway through as she was too drunk and it didn’t feel right.
Had quick hungover morning sex, and spent the rest of the day lazing around.
My ex-slave kept calling me and sending me WhatsApp messages, but I don’t want to work with him anymore.
He was an absolute nightmare, we started talking at the start of lockdown and he’d send me a fiver whenever he wanted to text me. But the conversation was very dull and I wasn’t feeling it.
When we met up, he was also trying to ‘top the dom’, so to speak, and I don’t care for it.
He’s starting to get very creepy, but if I block him, he can be worse, so I just ignore the calls and texts.
How I Do It
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