I've developed feelings for my best friend but he is so scruffy it’s really putting me off | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I have developed feelings for my best friend, he is so scruffy – and it’s really putting me off.

He leads an unhealthy lifestyle, smoking and drinking too much.


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His hair is matted and rarely looks brushed, and his beard is unkempt.

I always put in a lot of effort.

I do my hair and make-up, and dress nicely when we are going to meet.

We’ve been out six times since we decided to give things a go and although he’s smoking less, he’s still scruffy.

I’m 29 and he is 30.

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He has also told me he went to prison, but I only know vague details about what he did, other than him being a bit “handsy” with another woman.

I thought I was OK about it but now we’re dating I’m not so sure.

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DEIDRE SAYS: When anyone neglects their appearance it can be an indicator they neglect other things, such as their health.

Sometimes men who don’t care about their appearance suffer from low self-esteem or are insecure.

You are having serious doubts too because of his past.

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